NJOY Pure Wand

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I also like that the Wand doesn’t have any vibration. It requires you to do all the work, and kinda forces you to slow down and take your time. Sometimes the efficiency of a standard vibrator can encourage lazy yet rushed masturbation. The Wand is such a nice change of pace, and you’ll realize after the first use that the payoff is so worth it. And if you don’t like the sensation of a new toy the very first time you use it, don’t give up on it just yet. “The first time we try anything, we’re doing what we call spectatoring, which is observing ourselves, how it’s going, what we thought, what our partner thought. We’re in our heads and not so much in the experience,” says Fleming. “So try, try again.”

To make the Pure Wand work best for you, you’ll need to get fully aroused, use plenty of lube, and practice. "The more you try, the more likely it is that later, having an internal orgasm alone might work," says DiMartino. "The pure wand, once you’re turned on, is better for internal orgasms because it’s so curvy, so bulbous, so heavy, and so smooth." You may also want to avoid this sex toy if you have arthritis or a disability that affects your grip or arm strength. The Pure Wand is a lot heavier than most other toys—it's made of stainless steel, after all. That means it weighs about one and a half pounds, which doesn't sound like much, until you’re holding onto it for 15 minutes while trying to build up an orgasm. This can take a serious toll on your arm, especially if your goal is learning how to squirt. "If squirting is not something that happens naturally for you, then you may need to explore for quite some time," advises DiMartino. "So the Pure Wand may not be ideal for people who have a hard time holding something weighty." (Fair.) The Game-Changing Features Women wanting to explore their G-spot. This is a fantastic product for women who have never been able to find their G-spots before. I can’t overstate its simplicity. Whether you’re after solo G-Spot massage or partner play P-Spot fun, dive into the world of Njoy and give your lover the gift of pleasure. Insertable vibrators: Internal erogenous zones like the G-spot can enjoy vibration too! An insertable vibrator will have a longer shaft than a clitoral vibe, and may have an upward curve that aims for the G-spot. You can use an internal vibrator on its own, or pair it with a clitoral toy for explosive blended orgasms.

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If you want truly excellent vibrations, sometimes you have to pay a truly exorbitant price. But for those of us who like a lot of power, it's worth the cash. This gorgeous wand has a body made of aluminum and titanium for a shine and heft that just screams "luxury." Sure, it's pretty heavy and needs to be plugged in, but it's one of my favorite high-end vibes because its power and beauty are practically unparalleled. This is my personal favorite pressure-wave toy; it consistently gives me intense clitoral orgasms, whether I'm pairing it with a dildo or butt plug or just using it on its own. Its secret to success, beyond its fabulously thuddy motor, is the wide, flat "lips" around its nozzle, which help it create a better seal around your clit. This means that each of its rhythmic waves of air can be felt more strongly through your entire clitoris and not just the part that's visible on the outside, but the parts that extend deeper into the body as well. Although it looks a bit like a sea creature or Birdo from the Mario franchise, it more than makes up for its odd shape and appearance with the toe-curling sensations it provides. Women who want stronger and longer orgasms. I do a lot of orgasm coaching with women, and a number of my clients complain that their orgasms are disappointingly weak. The Wand delivers some truly outstanding G-spot stimulation that leads to powerful and extended orgasms. Seriously, you will want to give it a standing ovation after you use it.

People are generally surprised when DiMartino suggests trying the Pure Wand because, they say, "it doesn’t do anything on it’s own—it doesn’t thrust, it doesn’t vibrate." How could a toy that stays still be so great? It’s smartly designed to hit your G-spot or P-spot (aka, the prostate) and has enough heft to apply ridiculously satisfying pressure— that's how. Even if squirting isn’t your goal, the Pure Wand is still an awesome toy to add to your collection. It has two differently sized ends, one pretty small (less than an inch) and one larger (about one and a half inches), which makes it a good toy for both people who haven’t played with penetration much and for those who like penetration a lot. "If you’re looking to explore penetration again, the small side is very small, and it can create the same stretching effect as with dilators," explains DiMartino. You can work your way up from the smaller side to the larger side. This toy was my introduction to clit pumps, and I'm so glad it was, because its simple design makes it easy for even total beginners to experiment with the pleasures of clit suction. Clit pumps are especially good for people who struggle with arousal, because they bring blood flow to the area, increasing excitement and sensitivity, but their positive effects can be enjoyed by anyone with a clit. Just make sure to use lube and start slow and gentle. To up the ante, you can hold a vibrator against the pump, and the vibrations will transmit through the whole area. On orgasm misconception and dildo method: Thread: Opening Pandora's Box....Or How I Couldn't Stop Coming If you ask us, the best sex toys on the market today are right up there with fire and the wheel in terms of humanity's greatest inventions. Go ahead, laugh: but what is technology supposed to do besides make our lives easier and more pleasant? And let's be honest, what's more pleasant than a toe-curling orgasm?Start with a less expensive model,” Fleming advises beginners. “Sometimes trying a more affordable model gives you a sense of what a sensation is like and whether you like it.” Of course, if you already know what feeling you like and you need a recommendation for the best sex toy that aligns with that, we’ve got you too. What should men know when trying new sex toys? We-Vibe has created many iterations of their signature C-shaped couples' vibe over the years, and this one is about as close to perfect as they've gotten yet. Like its predecessors, this one has two "arms": one goes inside the vagina to hit the G-spot, while the other sits outside on the clit. It's meant to be worn during penetrative sex, stimulating both partners at once, but I've also found that it works well solo. The Chorus's most unique feature, though, is its squeeze-control remote: the tighter you squeeze the remote, the stronger the vibration gets, which is much more intuitive in the heat of the moment than struggling to press buttons in the dark. If you're new and looking for tips, do not skip reading their Getting Starting wiki. Advanced users may find value in their Advanced Skills section. It’s incredibly well-designed. For G-spot stimulation, you’ll find that the curve of the Wand perfectly places the ends right where they feel best. The weight helps it deliver a ton of pressure. The G-spot needs intense stimulation, and boy does the Wand deliver. You can try adding clitoral stimulation with a vibrator or your fingers for an orgasm that may require peeling you off the ceiling.

Ease of Use: 3 / 5 | Durability: 4.5 / 5 | Fun Factor: 3.5 / 5 | Features: 4.5 / 5 | Value: 3 / 5 | Overall Rating: 3.7 / 5 Setting the standard for luxury stainless steel pleasure products, Njoy are our go to. These sleek designs of these toys are a work of art in their own right and the wide range of shapes, sizes and target stimulation means there’s something for everyone.As with all Njoy toys, the sleek stainless steel design of the Pure Wand means it can be used with silicone, water or oil based lubricants and can be cleaned easily with specialist anti-bac cleaners or warm soapy water. This is the original couples' vibe," O'Reilly says. Its ingenious shape stimulates both the G-spot and clitoris at once during penetrative sex, and it can feel great when used solo too. With its 10-plus vibration modes, there's always something fun and new going on. Plus, it's waterproof for a little shower action (and it's like it gets clean in the process).