PEGGING for BEGINNERS and EXPERTS

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Talk about your boundaries, said Heidegger. Mashable has a guide to setting sexual boundaries to help out with that, too. You can watch some classes, as well; Heidegger recommends how-to videos at B Vibe and sex educator Luna Matatas’s classes. Vaginal penetration can be pleasurable for some, thanks to the G-spot, the A-spot, the feeling of fullness, and the power dynamics it may invoke,” says Sloane. For poop to pass from the colon to the rectum to the anal canal and eventually into the toilet, you have to voluntarily contract the muscle that pushes poop out. That means that no matter the gender dynamics in your sexual partnerships, pegging is an option. Why Might Someone Want to Try Pegging?

Even if the pegger does have a penis, using a harness and dildo allows them to elongate the length of time that they can pleasure their partner, or offers them another option if they don’t want to put their penis in someone’s butt. It’s also important to consider the dildo’s texture. “For some partners, the texture can become irritating,” says Sloane. That said, if the partner being penetrated has used and enjoyed textured butt plugs, dildos (not attached to a harness), or G-spot toys, there’s reason to believe that they’ll enjoy a textured strap-on experience. I love when you finger my ass during sex, so I’m thinking I might enjoy something bigger. Would anal strap-on play be something you’d be willing to talk about with me further?”

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When you’re buying a strap-on, you usually shop for the harness and dildo separately. But if you’re new to strap-ons or just want something super easy, plenty of beginner kits include both pieces. These sets from Lovehoney and Tracey Cox are excellent, affordable options.

For those interested in exploring the world of kink, pegging offers an incredible opportunity to play with power dynamics. I recently read an article about pegging, and I think it could be really hot to explore together. I’d love to send you the article and talk about it after. What do you think?”Prostate orgasms are completely unique. Traditional sexual intercourse feels incredible for men, but pegging provides an entirely different sensation. Penetrating the anus stimulates thousands of nerve endings, resulting in incomparable pleasure that men don’t typically experience. Zachary Zane, a sex columnist and sex expert for P.S. Condoms, recommends that if you're new to anal stimulation, you ease into it. "You definitely would like to start with something small," he advises. "A tiny butt plug or prostate massager is great for folks new to anal stimulation. I'd get a toy made from silicone instead of metal since silicone toys typically have a little bit more 'give.' Once you start getting comfortable with the butt plug, you can graduate to dildos, anal beads, anal hooks, and the like." Popular role play scenarios include boss and secretary, doctor and patient or the plumber popping round to fix your pipes! The possibilities are endless so provided you've agreed in advance, don't be afraid to explore your wildest fantasies with your partner. 6. Fancy dress There are many anal toys made with beginners in mind, and we've rounded up some of the best. Per Zachary Zane's advice, you should start small and consider thin, silicone toys, or relaxing tools like prostate massagers (just because women don't have prostate glands, doesn't mean they can't enjoy these). In a similar vein, Vanessa Smith recommends anal beads, plugs, and training kits made for beginners.

Don't be afraid to add a bit of role play to your pegging party. 'Personally, as a submissive woman, I enjoy pegging because it gives me a chance to be a different person,' says Makarewiz. 'I get to play a character in the bedroom that I'm usually not. Sometimes it is a challenge but it gives me that excitement and I let myself and my partner see me in a different role and he loves it! It is a mind play.' Okay, I have to mention this taboo topic. The thought of poop keeps a whole lot of sex-positive people from giving pegging a try. This is unfortunate, as poo very rarely rears its ugly head during anal. That’s because poop resides in the colon until you actually go to the bathroom and push it out through the rectum and anal canal.Pegging play usually involves a toy that’s larger than a finger or butt plug, so you’ll want to work up in size and adjust to the sensation of being penetrated and avoid pain or discomfort. We bought this 10-function vibrating butt plugto use to get the area stimulated and adjusted to something bigger than my fingers. If you enjoy your partner stimulating your anus with her fingers, pegging is the next natural step. Explain that you love the sensation of prostate orgasms and would like to try something more intense, such as a dildo. Simply ask if your partner is interested

By adopting a different persona or character, fans of role play often find it easier to explore situations they might not usually feel able to. This can bring people closer to their partner, too. ‘Using role play in the bedroom is about much more than indulging your long-held and unspoken fantasy about that traffic warden who once fined you,’ says Knight. In a nutshell, pegging involves an individual without a penis (typically a female) anally penetrating someone with a penis (typically a male) with a dildo. Many sources state that both partners are generally heterosexual, but with sex and relationships ever-evolving, that’s not necessarily the case. Swapping roles is exhilarating. Men typically take control in the bedroom, largely because they have the dominating power of the penis. Pegging allows women to take the dominant role by treating her partner—and herself—to a sexual act that’s generally played out by men.Don't forget to keep kissing and caressing your lover while you investigate, so he doesn't feel like a chemistry experiment. Sexual fantasy can just as easily be about meeting your emotional needs as your sexual ones. ‘We fantasise about so much in our lives, our dream jobs, the house we want to live in, what we want our future to look like, what we want to have for lunch that day – it makes no sense that our sex lives and sexuality wouldn’t fit the same pattern,’ says Moyle. ❤️ Boredom